To work as a couple is usually pretty
difficult, especially when you try to satisfy the tastes and desires of both
parties. Each one has his or her own carrier, she has her tastes, he has his,
and together they must find a solution to a compromise they never managed to
make.
Pretty hard to accomplish, especially because
both try to argument their point of view and they try to make their theory win
in totality, without letting some ideas of the other party slip within.
The compromise
Let’s
say this is a big house. She is an art collector and he isn’t. Then she gets
the living as a space for her hobby and he gets the mansard. She will decide
the style of one bedroom, he will decide the office-room decoration. And so
on... this is usually a satisfactory solution as long as each of them gets to
decorate the rooms that mean most to them.
Another approach is to try and find out just
what are those common points they have. There must be common points, there
always are, just that no one thought of finding them yet. Discovering common
tasted will help the couple discover a new life style. This is a good solution
to stay out of couples’ therapy whenever you stumble across some
misunderstanding.
What to learn from
this?
Each one of them has to learn something that
is the whole point in these kinds of misunderstandings. They have to learn to
know their limits and each other’s also. They must understand and remember the
wishes and desires of the other one, they must learn not to try and impose
their opinion at any cost because there surely are other solutions. Making
common decisions and learning to compromise will make the couple happy.
Perfect couple for
decorating the house
The perfect couple, which will please the
interior designer is a couple of well educated and behaved persons. It will be
a nice surprise once both persons will add their own suggestions without
fighting over them, when they are correctly informed and willing to understand
the other’s opinions.
Living and decorating together means mostly
finding the middle ways, that can satisfy both parties and still look good.
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